Self Love, Confidence and Attraction Spell

This spell will help to empower you and fill you with love for yourself and confidence to move through life and attract what you desire. It focuses on healing the perspective you have of yourself so you begin to embody higher vibrations of love for yourself, the world and others. Change begins from within so when you make changes within yourself you will soon see these changes reflected in the outside world. You will be able to attract and embody the love you desire when you work on the self.

This spell kit includes

Love, attraction and confidence herbal blend

Aphrodite oil sample

One to me lover oil sample

Tea light Candle

Amore’s salt

Petition cards

Petition scroll

Keyring

Organza bag

Spell preparation

Do this spell when you can be undisturbed and alone. Always ensure your space has been cleaned before attempting any spells.

Before you begin your spell add some of Amore’s Salt to a bowl of hot water. You can also add a few drops of an oil of your choosing to the water. When the water has cooled, place your hands in the water and say this prayer:

“By this salt of the sea and the mountains, my energy is cleansed and my aura is ready to receive and embody the vibrations of love. Any negative energies or attachments can no longer cling to me and block my destiny.”

Prepare clean white clothes and a clean towel. Take the bowl of water into the bath with you and put it aside. Then you’ll take a bath as per normal and cleanse yourself thoroughly. Once you’ve finished bathing pour the salted water over your body from the neck down. Once you’ve finished you’ll dress yourself in all white clothing to perform your spell.

You can choose to do a candle spell, a sachet spell, and/or an enchantment spell. When you’re ready to begin the spell you can play your favourite playlist, frequency or subliminal that makes you feel in love with life.

Here are what the spell oils can do:

Aphrodite Oil

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Come To Me Lover Oil

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Here are some of the powers of the herbs in the blend:

Rosemary - protection, healing, mental clarity and memory, psychic powers, love exorcism, purification, sleep, youth

Rose - love, joy, beauty, healing, luck, romance, sexual attraction, healing

Lavender - healing, love, protection, sleep, purification, happiness, peace, transmutation

Yarrow - protection, confidence, courage, banishing, love, clarity in communication

Catnip - love, beauty, happiness, attraction, positivity, luck, peace, attract positive spirit guides, intuition

Petition to the Herb Spirits

Spirit of Rosemary, I thank you for your protection, and for healing any mental blockages I may have. I thank you for helping me to clearly see my divine beauty and uplifting my spirit to embody divine love.

Spirit of Rose, I thank you for your soft touch over my heart to help me see the love and beauty that exists both around and within me. I thank you for aligning me with the highest forms of love and ensuring my life is filled with it.

Spirit of Lavender, I thank you for calming any anxiety I have about my worth and transmuting any negative emotions into positive ones. I thank you for healing how I see myself, and softening how I treat myself.

Spirit of Yarrow, I thank you for the courage you are giving me to truly be myself and the confidence to stand tall in who I am. I thank you for protecting me and removing any negative energy from around me.

Spirit of Catnip, I thank you for increasing my attraction and beauty, and drawing my desires towards me. I thank you for all the good energy you are bringing into my life.

Feel free to customize these petitions to go along with any other powers you would like to harness from the herbs.

Candle spell

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DISCLAIMER:

Ensure you have fire safety measures on hand when doing any spells involving fire. A bowl of sand or a fire extinguisher should be nearby. Never leave a lit candle unattended. If you must leave the room or take your attention away from it always put the flame out until you can give it your attention. Do not light candles near flammable objects.

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Find a clean surface and take out the herbal blend, candle, Amore’s Salt and the Aphrodite oil and/or Come To Me Lover oil.

Empty some of the salt onto your surface and starting from the middle circle your finger clockwise to create a hole in the center large enough to fit the candle. The salt circle should not be unbroken, if there are any gaps fill them in with more salt or redo the circle from the start.

Take a pinch of the herbal blend and hold it in your palm over your heart. Imagine a soft pink light emanating from your heart and flowing into the herbs in your hands. Speak the petition to the herb spirits directly into your palm to the herbs as you envision a bright pink light flowing into the herbs from your heart.

Once you’ve finished sprinkle the herbs on top of the candle. Be sure to move any herbs away from the wick and focus them on the outskirts of the candle. If the herbs are too close to the wick they create a fire hazard.

Anoint the candle with three drops of an oil of your choice. Light the candle and sit with it. Speak to the flame and tell it all the things you love about yourself, the things you wish others would notice, the things you feel make you unique, the things you wish to treat with more kindness about yourself, the things that make you feel love, etc. Spend time with this candle talking to it and being kind to yourself. This energy that you are feeding the flame is what is going to manifest in your life.

You can let the candle burn down completely or you can put it out when you are ready. You can light this candle whenever you have the time and speak to the flame to continue feeding it energy. When the candle has burnt out completely your spell is complete.

Trust that your power is flowing through the universe to exert your will. Detach from the outcome and let the changes work their way towards you. In time you will notice your reality begin to align with the spell you have casted.

This candle can also be used in the sachet spell.

Sachet Spell

Get a clean glass bowl and empty a small amount of the herbal blend into the bowl. Hold the bowl up to your heart and say the petition to the herb spirits directly into the herbs.

When you are finished rest the bowl down and place your hands on top of the herbs. Close your eyes and breathe deeply as you envision a soft pink light glowing from your heart and flowing into your hands and infusing into the herbs. Envision how beautiful, loved and confident you feel as your energy fuses with the herbs. Feel the energy and light pulse from your heart to every inch of your body. Spend as long as you need feeling this energy flow through you and intermingle with the herbs. When you feel like there has been a sufficient charge say this aloud:

“I am beauty, I am love, I am divine. Every inch of my mind, body and soul is sacred. I am confident, magnetic and attractive. My energy pulls in the most abundant and highly protected versions of love. I love myself and I am loved by all.”

Rest the candle from the candle spell on top of the herbs and light it. Repeat the above affirmation into the flame and spend some time with it visualising the light pink light flowing from the flame and charging the herbs with power. Spend some time meditating with the flame and playing some of your favourite music to it, or music that aligns with the outcome you want. When you feel it has been sufficiently charged put out the flame and remove it from atop the herbs.

Once you’ve finished write a short love letter to yourself on the brown petition scroll. Anoint the petition with the Aphrodite oil and roll it up and seal it again with the ring it came with. Add this scroll to the sachet and add the herbs to the sachet as well.

Enchantment

You can enchant items with magical powers to keep on you as a talisman. This item will hold the magical intention you set and help to influence events when you use it. Included in this kit is a keyring that you can enchant for whatever purpose you want based on the herbs’ power. You can also enchant any other items you may have that you keep on you all the time like jewelry or crystals, or you can even enchant perfumes, skin care, hair products, etc.

This spell will follow the same framework of the sachet spell by placing the herbal blend in a clean glass bowl and expressing gratitude to the herbs for whichever of its powers you’d like to utilise. If an herb has protective powers always ensure you express gratitude for that power no matter what to ensure you stay safe from any negative outcomes. Then spending time infusing your power into the herb by visualising the pink light.

Dress a candle with one of the oils of your choosing depending on the outcome you want to call in. Take one of the petition cards and write what powers you want to imbue into your object. The petition should be in present tense and follow a framework of; “Thank you for the power of … in this [insert object].”

Place the item and petition in the bowl with the herbal blend and bury it in the herbs. Leave them bowl to charge under the moonlight overnight. Once it has complete charging transfer the herbs and petition to a sealed container and keep in a safe place. Whenever you’re not using the item store it with the herbs and petition to charge them up. If you want to give it a boost of power empty the herbs and petition into a bowl, bury the item and charge it under the moonlight again.